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The Challenge Week 5- Double Your Pleasure, Double Your Fun

1-cor-challenge I just got home from an amazing weekend at Blissdom and I am coming down from a major high. I am glad to be home though and am looking forward to some “quality time” with the hubby. Too much information? When has that ever stopped me before? Anyway, if you are someone I met this weekend heading over here for the first time, head here first so you can get caught up with the rest of us.

Also, last week, I asked you to help out one of my readers with a confidential survey, but I think my directions were totally confusing. So I asked her to let me know what you needed to know to help her out. Here is what she said and thanks in advance for helping her out.

The best way to get to the research survey is to go to yahoo mail and for the ID put in  songofsolomon11@yahoo.com (the password is a1s2d3) Once in the inbox, open the email with the subject line Research Questions. Copy & paste into a new email (right in this email account) and email your response to solomonssong11@yahoo.com. Your email addresses and identities are kept completely private.

Ok, ladies, this week we step it up!! Which I completely realize I said last week, but you guys are pros at this challenge now, so I know you can do it. This challenge is for the rest of the month of February. It is the month were we are supposed to be extra lovey dovey and remember that we love people in case we forgot the rest of the year. So there will still be weekly challenges, but you have to keep this one going for the whole month. Got it?

For this month you are to double your weekly frequency. First, here are the caveats. If you are one of those women who wrote me that you are a 3 time a weeker, you need not double it. You are more than welcome to, God Bless You!!! But you are already rockin this challenge. This one is for those of us with a bit lower numbers. Maybe you can just stand on the sidelines and cheer us on (not literally, that would be weird).

If you aren’t having sex once a week, then start with a baby step. Double your monthly frequency, your yearly frequency, whatever. Just double something. Oddly enough, sex is like a lot of habits. The more you do it, the more of a habit it will become and I find, the more you want to do it. I once heard a speaker say to put a little heart on the calendar every time you have a night of romance. The goal is for a month full of hearts. And your mother won’t suspect anything kinky cause it is February and you can just tell her you really got in the Valentine’s spirit with the calendar this year.

Ok ladies, are you in?

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  1. MY HUSBAND WILL BE SO HAPPY!

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  2. I’m in. I will try to double our weekly. I want to want this I really really do.

    Anns last blog post..I Caved

  3. I’m in! This one will be a bit harder…we have three kids under the age of six so lovemaking sessions tend to be l-a-a-a-a-t-e at night…lol…when we are both really tired. We’re working on getting a better time frame :)

    Mrs. Qs last blog post..PhoTOTgraphy

  4. Kristen says:

    Come on sexy ladies! You can do this. : ))

    (I would but then we would literally never leave our room. We’re childless, newlyweds remember!)

    Of course, my husband wouldn’t complain. ; )

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  5. I’m in! Doubling up. Oh yeah.

    Dawns last blog post..Obama Lied

  6. Betsy says:

    Happy Valentine’s, indeed!

    To those out there with young children, let me encourage you that this can work! We have three children three and under (we had three under two for a while), and it takes some creativity! I’d say we average 8 times a month (I only know this because we have to chart for natural family planning), so I’ll try to up it. We’ve even set early morning “dates” where we set the alarm to get up before the kids (and we’ve never regretted it although when that alarm first goes off, it’s tempting to hit snooze). We just get up, go to the bathroom, swish some mouthwash, and hop back in bed!

  7. oh boy — my husband is going to have no idea what’s going on. He is going think I am ready for our second :)

    Courtney from Mommie Blogss last blog post..ben made me cry…

  8. Krista says:

    This is one I _want_ to do, but when you work different shifts, you get together when you can. Sigh….we are both sad about that. We are not both actually home and awake at the same time except on weekends.

  9. You do amuse me with your humor!

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  10. You are quite the marital nookie drill sergeant! :-)

  11. I’m in, of course! The hubby will love this one.

  12. Since reading “Becoming the Woman of His Dreams” my goal has been to never reject my husband in this area of our lives. Since then we have gone from about 3 or 4 times a week to 6 or sometimes even 7. I have to say that since we both know rejection is not ever my goal I have a much happier husband. He is more confident in many areas of his life. I also find it easier to say yes since no is not really an “option” anymore. Just to clarify, we do have an 18 month old running around and we both work outside of the home.

    Anything is possible!

    Bridgettes last blog post..Free Chick-fil-a!!

  13. sorry, this week’s challenge impossible :) But don’t be upset, we sure aren’t!!!
    (currently childless newlyweds here, too)
    In – say – nine months :) I will probably benefit from (read: NEED) your challenges a little more.

    Lanas last blog post..Ah, sleepytime, she comes

  14. Okay, I totally love the heart thing!

    Lois Lane IIs last blog post..Lovin’ me some podcasts

  15. I love this challenge…so far it’s been cake…this one seems a bit trickier. Will definitely up our number, but doubling it may hurt someone. hehe

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  16. Duh, ignore my e-mail to you…I figured it out! Week 5…here we go! Thanks!

    Bobbis last blog post..Memory Monday…2 Cor. 1:3-5

  17. Great Idea! I’m in :)

    Beth@Not a Bow in Sights last blog post..How We Met

  18. Hey, I noticed you are doing these challenges and thought you or your readers may be interested in my giveaway. I’m giving away Intimate Issus by Linda Dillow. You can enter here:
    http://ponderingsfrommyheart.blogspot.com/2009/02/intimate-issues-giveaway.html

    Leahs last blog post..Against All Odds

  19. Count me in to NOT double! There aren’t enough days in the week!!! lol :-) But I am cheering you all on from my corner of the world! You can do it! Ra ra sis boom ba!!! ya know, somethin’ like that. BTW-I love it everyday with my hubby, it keeps us close, and we have such respect and love for one another. Big plus, it keeps us closer to God!! So… Enjoy ladies ;)

    Anna Sophias last blog post..100th post and a Giveaway!

  20. My husband is coming home on Thursday for 5 days. I’ve been paying attention & am ready to rock it.

    Praying that Aunt Flo doesn’t come on time…

    mandys last blog post..Camp Counselor

  21. He’s not going to know what hit him…

    lauras last blog post..Old Wineskin

  22. I learned this tip from an 85 year old lady at church (for those of you who are already on the 7 day a week plan…) We were talking about someone else’s sex challenge and how couples were supposed to do it every day for 30 days… Her response: “Just once a day?” Perhaps that’s why her nickname was GO-GO! She clarified – “You better do it while you can!)

    There you have it – if you indulge 7 days a week, just do it twice a day!

    Oh – and shock and awe? both shocking and awesome (blush)

    I’m a Believer!
    Laura

    Lauras last blog post..Daughters…

  23. i think the hearts on the calendar is a great idea! especially for those of us that are a little type A and goal oriented! hubby won’t know what hit him!

    Natalies last blog post..A Monday Meme

  24. Oh I so needed this challenge this week, I think my hubby is feeling deprived.

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  25. I’ve had a bit of an “awakening” in the last 9 months or so, and so our LM’g frequency has jumped astronomically over last year’s stats. But I will commit to ratcheting it up even more – and sharing the challenge on my blog. :)

    Will you be continuing the challenge past this week, and if not, would it be too complicated to introduce it over at my site once you’ve stopped?

    tia!

    sues last blog post..seasoned baked chicken

  26. Okay, I’m not really sure how many times… I don’t keep track, but I’m sure that hubby does! I’m going to have to find some stickers to put on my calendar. Hopefully my teenagers won’t ask why there are a bunch of heart on the family calendar! I’ve been rereading Romancing Your Husband by Debra White Smith since I started your challenge… Thanks for the push!

    Lynnets last blog post..Random Picture Challenge

  27. We’ve fallen behind our “usual schedule” due to DaHubby’s full time school and full time work so we’ll try to get back in that neighborhood of frequency.

  28. Deborah says:

    Frequency?! Ha! What’s double of nothing?

    Prayin’ for a miracle here.

  29. Kimberly C. says:

    We will try!

  30. I just found your website and am loving this! What a great idea to get ladies takling about such an important subject. This is truly the BEST thing you can do for your marriage! Hubby and I greatly benefited from our ‘marriage and family’ S.S. classes during the early years of our marriage. It’s helped us..um..succeed in our relationship…that’s right, baby, if we doubled my kids would never get fed…

    Pams last blog post..KP Duty

  31. I’m WAY late…somehow I missed the post on Monday! BUT, I’m in, as a cheerleader! We’re TTC, so we’re getting in PLENTY of sex! http://forums.ovusoft.com/chart.asp?id=TeachinAuntie (Check out my chart if you don’t believe me!) I second the heart thing. I used to do that when I was on BCP. Good Luck ladies!

    Stephanies last blog post..Small Talk Six!

  32. PS. I got to do Week 2 yesterday. A full week’s worth of sexy undies! Yay! I added that blog to my Week 5 blog, which is up now!

    Stephanies last blog post..Small Talk Six!

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