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The Challenge Week 10- Shake It Up Baby Now

1-cor-challenge So I am just going to assume since you ladies all told your hubby’s exactly what you like last week you had the best sex of your life. Or at least you’re on your way there. So this week let’s get a little crazy shall we?

I defy you to read that title and not picture Ferris on top of a float in Chicago with Bavarian girls dancing behind him. If you don’t know what I am talking about you are either too young or too old to be having sex and you shouldn’t read this post anyway.

Part of the reason our sex lives get stale is because we fall into a rut. Perhaps an evening in the bedroom looks like this. Husband leans over with twinkle in eye. You agree, somewhat annoyed that you have to stop reading Better Homes and Garden. You kiss a little, touch at points A,B and C (and always in that order), assume the same position as always, 45 minutes later (well maybe not, that was for the hubby) resume reading magazine. My sex life is wayyyyy more exciting than that, but I am speaking to the rest of you of course. Ahem.

Perhaps what we need is to mix things up a bit. Now I am not talking about anything crazy. No toys, weird costumes, dirty talking (unless you want to, no judgement here). Just something a little different all while maintaining your Christian values. Maybe you kiss a little longer to build anticipation. Maybe you touch at points B, A, C (radical!). Or, gasp, try a different position. I am not going to get into specifics here, use your imagination. Trying new things is typically awkward at first (ouch, you’re on my hair), but you may find something that works really well that you can add to the repertoire. If nothing else, you can have a good laugh trying something different. If you go too crazy and end up in the E.R. make sure you have your stories straight, preferably one that doesn’t involve the real reason you got injured.

I can’t WAIT for the comments after this one :)

Comments

  1. I figured Ferris meant Ferris Bueller (sp) but I didn’t know what you meant so I asked hubby and he pulled up the you tube of it lol. He said “I don’t see what this has to do with your thing though”.

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  2. I totally had the Ferris scene in my head from the title even before you mentioned it! Looks like I am just the right age to be having sex. Wahoo! :)

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  3. I can’t help but giggle with this. You just have a way of writing these things…even if they are a little uncomfortable for me to read. :)

    Come on by to snag an award I gave you on my blog. ;)

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  4. Have you read Leman’s “Sheet Music” cuz I have a feeling it’d crack you up!? I’ll try to get my funky groove on this week! HA HA HA!

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  5. 45 minutes???? as if. :)

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  6. Trying new things can be alot of fun! We occasionally use a triangular pillow to add a little variety. I have no idea where we got it (my husband used to use it for his acid reflux – sexy, I know)… we’ve seen special ones intended for use in the bedroom but their kind of expensive. But you could always use a regular pillow to add a little lift to your bum… or whatever. ;-)

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  7. http://morristown.liquidchurch.com/pages/page.asp?page_id=59776

    just wanted to share – my friend attends this church and they did a series on love and sex.
    It is great!

    thanks for this “journey”!

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  8. i’m jewish so i don’t need to worry about maintaining christian values and seeing eden fantasys has been bombarding us mommy blogs…i have a plethora of toys!
    and i TOTALLY pictured ferris bueller. in fact, now i can’t stop saying bueller, bueller…in my head. thanks. a lot!

  9. heehee, fun :) My man will like this one. me too. I need to be more creative sometimes.
    (Is ‘dirty talk’ dirty when you’re married? Gosh I hope not! *blush* Still, I hope my mom doesn’t read this.)
    I have NO idea what you are talking about with Ferris (although my parents once told me about some movie about some dude named ferris bueller…), so I guess that makes me young, but seeing as how I’m old enough for a marriage license… :)

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  10. My hubby and I LOVE Ferris Bueller’s Day Off – and we bought a VCR just so we could continue to watch it after our old one broke. We should probably have just bought the DVD but we had a lot of other VHS tapes we weren’t ready to give up. Love this one, we figured out different “positions” when I was preggo and some of them just worked so well for us we still use them!

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  11. 45 minutes? LOL Try, “Quick before the kids realize what we’re doing & open the door to barge in here!” (We don’t have a lock on our bedroom door and various attempts at wedging it shut so that it can’t be opened have failed.)

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  12. Amy, my parents door didn’t have a lock either. However (I didn’t understand it at the time, though…) they had a hook and eye that they kept at the top of the door, and that kept us out pretty well. I thought it was so momma get dressed in privacy and my brothers wouldn’t barge in (I wanted one on my door! Privacy was hard to come by with so many brothers…)

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  13. Oh yeah, baby!

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  14. i promise i’m old enough (shows id saying i’m 28 and legally married) but i don’t get your reference.

    *runs off to google*

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  15. have you checked out the Christian Nymphos? they are dedicated to reminding Christ-following women that God designed sex to be *spicy*. :)

    i read them regularly – they have “position of the week” posts and other things that i find interesting and useful. they are blunt about sex, but it’s not distasteful or crude. :)

    check ’em out – http://christiannymphos.org/

    (and no, i’m not one of the “spice girls” on the blog. just a loyal reader. ;) )

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  16. FYI, I’m shaking things up, and my husband is going crazy (in a good way, lol)!! He even mentioned today, “I really like this new aggressive side.” Yea!

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  17. after trying….
    we like.
    will do more.
    ’nuff said.

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  18. Is THAT what “C’mon, baby, now. Twist and shout.” really refers to?!

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