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Teaching Your Kids About Money

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Summer of #unspoiling continues but I must admit I have become a slacker on some days about keeping up chores and consistency. I am finding myself longing for the organized days of September because keeping a routine and schedule in the summer is just plain hard.

Today we hopped back on the chore wagon by making my girls clean out desks and drawers, hunting for things off their school list. We found about half of each of their lists so that is a major win. And it also confirmed my suspicions that when I ask Lily to clean her room she really just shoves everything in her desk…..

One of the major things we are cracking down on as part of project #unspoiling is stopping the constant asking for things. To be taken places, to be bought stuff and to be given treats every time they take a breath. The problem is they are used to these things (well not “quite” those things) and going backwards is pretty hard. But we are committed.

As I have said before, one of the most eye opening things for me ever since I read the article that took me on my #unspoiling journey is how much “spoiledness” lives in my own heart. And one of the biggest ways I see this is how I struggle with needs vs. wants.

I need a pedicure, I need a new dress (with nowhere to wear it), I need new bedroom furniture. Truth is I need none of those. I want them though. And somewhere in me, I feel as though I deserve them. Deserve them just for living and breathing I guess. Because life is hard and I am living a good and kind life and DARN IT I deserve it!!

So should it shock me that my kids can’t tell the difference either? They need whatever toy they just saw a commercial for. They need dessert. They need to go to Chuck E. Cheese. “How come we have only been to Disney once?????” Oh the depravity.

I think part of the problem is parents who need to hold a tighter line (i.e.. me). But I think part of the problem is my kids don’t have a good grasp on money. We keep saying that our kids need an allowance and we very very inconsistently give them one, but we need to be more purposeful about it.

PNC Bank has developed an awesome learning tool to help teach your kids about money, earning, saving,  and spending. Best part is it does it at the level of a child’s understanding. Cute cartoons, easy to play games and best of all, watch videos from Sesame Street. You can even order a kit (in either English or Spanish) for some hands on learning. Concepts that are perfect for your preschooler.

It is all part of PNC’s “S is for Savings” account for kids. I will be telling you more about their actual account program in a later post but for now, check out their resources. I think it is going to be a good first step for us in teaching our kids about money.

How do you teach your kids about money?

Disclosure: This post is sponsored by PNC Bank. As usual all opinions are mine.

DIY Frugal Makeup Remover

DIY Eyemakeup Remover

The advent of Pinterest has pretty much made me want to make everything from scratch. Cause if it can be made from scratch, you can find the way to do it on Pinterest. Not only is it more frugal to do so but it is a way to get all the chemicals and junk out of your stuff. And I am a big fan of that.

One of the things I have always hated spending money on is eye makeup remover. It costs a lot. But is a total necessity if you are lazy like me and forget to take your eye makeup off before you go to bed. I wake up looking like a major raccoon.

Who knew you could make your own with a few simply ingredients I totally always have on hand.

DIY Makeup Remover

inspired by Pinterest

1 c. water

1 1/2 T baby shampoo

1/4 t. olive oil (or coconut oil)

Combine ingredients and stir. Pour into a container. I recommend shaking the container each time you use to mix everything together. Apply with a cotton ball.

So easy and it works so well.

What DIY household product have you had the most luck with?

This post is linked up to Works For Me Wednesday and Pin It For The Wednesday.

Holiday Fashions for Less From Sears

Things I learned while crafting this post: I can’t take a good picture to save my life. There isn’t a single room in our house that has decent lighting. Don’t take “fashion” pictures at 8pm when you are tired, all your makeup has worn off and your hair is totally flat. In other words, there is no danger of me ever turning The Diaper Diaries into a fashion blog.

BUT when you are asked to head to Sears and purchase “holiday looks”, you don’t say no despite your photgraphical challenges. Because there is nothing I love more than a shopping challenge. So this weekend armed with $75 and my favorite fashionista (Lily) I ventured to Sears to see what I could put together.

Here are my top ten favorite holiday outfits from Sears compared to splurges I could have gotten elsewhere.

  1.   ok so this really isn’t a “holiday outfit” but I wore it to the Kindergarten Christmas party today with a green scarf (that didn’t make the picture because it has chocolate all over it #occupationalhazard) and thought I looked rather elf like. But I love that I can wear it all year long. {Shirt}
  2. jcrew oh look. Almost the same shirt. For over double the price. SCORE!! {Shirt}
  3. again, not holiday per se, but this just makes me want to snuggle by a fire. I think it would be perfect for traveling by car or by air. Or for a family Christmas. {Sweater}
  4. cardigan Here is a similar look that is quite the splurge. {Sweater}
  5. I have been dying to get a maxi skirt for quite some time. But haven’t really found one I love. This one I spotted and immediately grabbed hold of. I am not sure what to put on the top. Ideas? {Skirt}
  6. maxiskirt I kind of dig the stripes on this much pricier version, but I am loving the brown in mine much more. {Skirt}
  7. For quite some time I have wanted to get a sequined tank. I tried on several at Sears but this one won out. I am not sure I love it with jeans. Would black pants just be too black? I think this is the perfect tank for New Year’s Eve. {Tank}
  8. sequin See I am enjoying it with the skinny black pants. But I am not enjoying this price. {Tank}
  9. And now is the point where I realize there are supposed to be 10 things, but I only have 8.
  10. And now is the point where you forgive me.
    Please check out Sears for all your holiday fashion needs. I think you will be pleasantly surprised by what you find!

I received a gift card to purchase holiday styles from Sears as part of the Glam Trendsetter Program. The opinions expressed herein are those of the author and are not indicative of the opinions or positions of Sears. This post is linked up to Top Ten Tuesday at Oh Amanda!

Frugal Friday- ShopAtHome.com (plus a GIVEAWAY!!)

Frugal-Friday-2-736462 It has been awhile since I have done a Frugal Friday, but make no mistake I am always looking for a good deal. I had read a lot about people using cash back sites for online shopping, but although I do a lot of online shopping, I just never remembered to use any of them. But then ShopAtHome.com recently contacted me with a shopping challenge. Um, I’m sorry….did someone just CHALLENGE ME TO SHOP? Do you think it is possible for me to turn this into some sort of career?

I was given a $50 Target giftcard (shopping challenge AND Target, SQUEE!!) to see how far I could make it go using ShopAtHome.com. Their site offers coupon codes, free shipping codes as well as cash back on your purchases. It is super easy to navigate and find what you are looking for using the search function. Once you find the store you want, you simply click through the ShopAtHome.com link and begin shopping. Your cash back is credited to your account and will be cashed out once you hit $20.

In an effort to reign in the clutter monster that is constantly taking over our house, I purchased this ottoman:

imageI think it will also double as a “holy crap people are coming over and the house is a mess and I need someplace to pitch all this stuff” ottoman. Really, Target should consider calling it that. Cause I bet 90% of people are using it in that capacity.

I am so excited about the deal I got!! Normally the ottoman sells for $79.99, but it was on sale for $59. So right off the bat I have saved 26%. Then I got free shipping when I spend $50 on certain home decor. I can’t seem to figure out how much that saved me, but it weighs 33.5 pounds so I have to believe I saved a bundle. When I checked out, Target told me I had saved 34% so we will go with that. PLUS I get 5% back from ShopAtHome.com just for shopping. HOLLA!!

Do you want to take a shopping challenge? That is right, I have a $50 Target giftcard for you to give ShopAtHome.com a try. And I would like to talk a little smack and say that I don’t think you can beat my savings. Well, I guess you could shop clearance, but that seems unfair. So leave me a comment telling me why you need a Target giftcard and we will have a little throw down. Of course, the winner of the giftcard will be chosen at random, but the winner of the shop o’ thon will get bragging rights. Let’s see what you frugalistas got.

Winner will be chosen at random on Wed. Oct, 28th. Good luck!!

Disclosure: I was provided with a $50 Target giftcard in order to facilitate my review of ShopAtHome.com. The ability to shop like a rock star AND all opinions are mine.

Frugal Friday- My Water Bill

fridgidaire_badgePc   I have been waiting to write this post ever since I got my new washer and dryer. But of course it has taken until now for me to be ABLE to write this post. None of this makes any sense so let me back up.

WAY back in ye olden days when I had just one kiddo at home I went merrily along my way paying my water bill every month, paying little attention to what the amount was, just noting every month that it was about the same. Then baby #2 came along and several months after, my bill went up. By like $10 a month. Which isn’t a ton granted but I noticed the difference and called the water company. They asked me if I had added any people to the household. When I replied that I had they said that caused the discrepancy and it just took awhile for it to show up in the billing cycle. Although it doesn’t seem like it is THAT much different apparently each new person added means more laundry, dishes, etc. And even though that makes sense when your kid goes through 4 onesies a day because of various intestinal related blow outs, it doesn’t really ever go back down again. More people just equals more water.

So when Silas came along I waited for the water bill to go up. When my Frigidaire washer came I waited for the water bill to go down. You see they claim to use up to 82% less energy and 60% less water. Nothing happened so I assumed the cancelled each other out and was pretty happy about it because it seems to me all I do all day is dishes and laundry. Then again, a shower is rare so maybe that is where the grand savings is coming in.

But then, this month’s water bill came. And it has gone DOWN by $5 a billing cycle. Now you might scoff at $5, but recall I have added another human to the house. A boy human who seems to be a tad messier than I remember. Then again, I barely remember what I ate for dinner a few hours ago so who is to say. I expected my bill to go up, but instead it has gone down. And $5 a month equals $60 a year. Which equals a nice massage somewhere for this mama. And if my math is correct and it should have gone UP $10 as well, that equals $15 savings a month or $180 a year. And to me that equals a few pairs of shoes.

I am anxious to see what happens to our bill after summer when we do use water more cause of our lawn. Perhaps more massages and shoes are in my future…

This post was submitted to Frugal Fridays at Life as Mom.

I wrote this review while participating in a Test Drive Campaign by Mom Central on behalf of Frigidaire and received a Frigidaire Washer/Dryer to facilitate my review. But the savings are mine all mine (shhh…don’t tell my hubby)

Frugal Friday- Giving Back for Free

frugalfriday I have said it so many times I am like a broken record, but one of the best reasons to be frugal is because it allows you to have extra money to give back to those who have less than you. But I have the best kind of giving back opportunity EVAH. You get to give back to those who have less than you, but it doesn’t cost you a darn thing. How awesome is that?

My hubby and I (well mostly my hubby, but I am his arm candy) have had the opportunity to work with this a.maz.ing local organization called Kids Food Basket. In a nutshell, they provide food to kids who most likely aren’t getting it at home. The local school system is providing lunch and often breakfast, but then what. Well the founder discovered the “then what” and it was children digging through the dumpsters behind the school. Kids Food Basket was born.

Well Pepsi is giving away a whole bunch of money to different charities as part of their Pepsi Refresh program. And Kids Food Basket is in the running for a $50,000 grant that will provide FRESH fruits and veggies to the kids they serve. To say this is huge is an understatment. But here is the deal, the winner is chosen by vote. You can vote once a day two different ways. First, you can vote on the web at the Pepsi Refresh site. On the site, you can vote for up to 10 charities a day so poke around and see what else is out there. Just make sure to send one of those 10 votes our way. You can also vote by texting 101423 to 73774.

Again, you can do each thing once a day. For infinity. Ok, until the end of August. Yesterday Kids Food Basket was in 240th place. Today they are in 28th. Can you help me put them in first? We love this organization so much that tonight my dear hubby dressed up as a juice box and threw out the first pitch at the local minor league game. That is some serious love. If he can make a slight fool out of himself to help kids not go hungry, can you send a little text? Thanks so much for your help!!

KFBphoto courtesy of my lame phone

*this post is submitted to Frugal Friday at Life as Mom

Frugal Friday- Cheap Summer Fun

 

frugalfriday   It is almost midnight and I just got home from an amazing event on the other side of the state where one of my favorite local organizations won the 2010 Governor’s Service Award for Outstanding Volunteer Program. My hubby just happens to be president of their board so he got to hang with the governor all evening. I was his arm candy. So congrats to Kid’s Food Basket and all their amazing volunteers.

Anyway, it is super late and I have no posts waiting in the wings so I thought I would instead let you read other people’s brilliant ideas and I can go to bed. It is a win-win. Well at least a win for me anyway. Hopefully you will find some good stuff as well. So here are some great outdoor summer fun activities I am looking forward to trying with my kids.

What about you? What “frugal” things do you like to do in the summer?

This post is linked to Frugal Fridays at Life as Mom.

Frugal Friday- Group Buying

frugalfriday    Do you Groupon? It keep hearing and hearing and hearing about it. Unfortunately it hasn’t made it to Grand Rapids yet (lets make that happen shall we Groupon), but I am waiting for the moment when I can get a massage for pennies on the dollar. How about Seize the Deal? They are supposed to be “coming soon” as well. Come on people, mama needs a massage!! Thankfully we have Hop In Deals although I haven’t found any massages yet.

Basically these all work in a similar way. There is a deal of the day that is at an incredible discount. The way these companies negotiate the discount is by promising the merchant that a minimum number of people will sign up. You sign up if you want the deal and if enough other people sign up, it is yours. The minimum isn’t reached? The deal is off.

I have seen deals for restaurants, dental work, hair salons, and yes, massages. It is a great way to save money on things you would do anyway or maybe a way to treat yourself to something special (like a massage- are you sensing a theme?). Even if you don’t see your cities listed, get signed up through the links above. That way you will be the first on the list to get deals when they come to your city?

Have you tried any of these sites for deals?

For more frugal tips, head over to Life As Mom.

Frugal Friday- Community Supported Agriculture

frugalfriday First off, what is a CSA? According to Wikipedia (which never lies), a CSA is:

A CSA consists of a community of individuals who pledge support to a farm operation where the growers and consumers share the risks and benefits of food production. CSAs usually consist of a system of weekly delivery or pick-up of vegetables and fruit in a vegetable box scheme, sometimes including dairy products and meat.

After a few years of hearing about them but frankly being scared of being forced to eat weird foods, we pulled the trigger this year and split a share at a local farm with some friends of ours. And I am so sad I did not do it sooner!! I love that I am getting amazing quality organic produce fresh from the farm for a fraction of the cost I would pay for crappy produce from the grocery store that comes from halfway across the country. And the money stays here, in this economy, which frankly really needs it.

The thing I was most afraid of? That I would waste food because we wouldn’t like it, or the kids wouldn’t eat it, or I just wouldn’t be able to use it all in a week. So far, that has not remotely happened. I am getting creative in the kitchen and discovering new foods I never knew I would like. If you recall, I am not an adventurous eater. But thanks to a few great cookbooks , I am finding ways to incorporate different veggies in a way that my family will eat them. The kids have been involved in the pick up of our stash every week so they are actually excited to try new things. It doesn’t always go over well, but at least they are trying.

So by my estimation, I get weekly produce from June through the end of October. I am hoping to do some canning and freezing as well so my bounty can last me into the winter. I think the cost works out to $9 a week (math is not a strong suit). That seems like a heck of a deal to me. Oh and I didn’t even mention that the last 2 weeks I have also received a plant that has promptly gone in the garden. So that is the gift that keeps on giving.

Local Harvest is a great website for finding a local CSA near you. Have you tried a CSA? Did you find you saved money?

For more frugal tips, head over to Life As Mom.

Frugal Friday- Microfinance

microloans It is really weird cause it seems like my World Vision trip was so long ago. I really hate how easily I have slipped back into my middle class American existence. I still think of my World Vision kids every day. One’s picture is on my fridge. Another is my screen saver and my Twitter ID. They also slip into my mind every time I find myself moaning about the fact that it is hot out or that my dryer is on the fritz. Thankfully I often catch myself mid-moan and remember how most of the world is living.

I mentioned when I was down in the Dominican Republic how amazing the work that World Vision is doing in teaching job skills to people, especially women. Many housewives who were relying on their husband’s unreliable source of income suddenly have the ability to start businesses that will provide steady income to their families. This is especially important as we kept hearing story after story of husbands who had abandoned their families for various reasons. World Vision’s whole philosophy rests on the age old wisdom that instead of providing man with a fish they should teach them how to fish.

I cannot tell you how much I love, love, love that philosophy. Not to get off on a political rant, but giving handout after handout so often keeps people in the cycle of poverty. And World Vision believes so strongly that this is NOT the way to solve global poverty. Here is a statement from their microfinance website:

Small loans by themselves are not enough to end global poverty. But when these small loans are interwoven with other poverty-fighting efforts like clean water, health, and education, the result is a world-class approach to community development.”

I saw this philosophy in action. I tasted it in the cookies one group made for us as they learned about baking and cake decorating. I saw it in the faces of women beaming with pride as they showed us their purses and bedspreads they had sewn. I heard it in the pride in their voices when they talked about their beauty salons that had started out in their front room and expanded to a store front all done with microloans. It is amazing what is being done with small gifts invested in someone’s dream of a better future for their family.

So maybe you read about my trip and thought that it was great and all, but you just weren’t up for making a monthly commitment. You can still make a huge difference in the life of a family half way around the world. Head over to their microfinance page and you can browse through entrepreneurs and help to underwrite his or her loan. You can search by business type, gender, loan amount and countries. This is a new site so only a few countries are represented. Unfortunately the Dominican Republic isn’t on there, but I am hoping as the site grows it will be added. Once you fund a loan you will receive updates on how your shared business is growing. And once it is repaid (the current repayment rate is 98.7%), your donation recycles over and over again to help more entrepreneurs in the same country.

The minimum donation is $25. I think that is a pretty frugal way to invest in an entire community’s future. Need more inspiration? Check out these success stories. Or if you feel so led, change the life of a child through sponsorship. I know for a fact your life will be changed as well.

This post was submitted at Life is Mom for Frugal Friday.